Ever feel like you’re mixing all the right ingredients for success, but the dish just isn’t coming out right? You’re not alone. Many reps struggle with finding the perfect recipe for success in Primerica, feeling like they’re missing that one secret ingredient. But what if you could finally nail it down? What if you could discover the exact blend of skills, mindset, and actions that top reps use to rise to the top? That’s exactly what David Kim dives into in this session. It’s packed with insights and practical tips that will help you identify and incorporate the essential ingredients for your success. Watch it now below and uncover the breakthrough strategies that can transform your business and elevate your results.
Video Transcription:
I don’t have a lot of time with you guys, so I want to run through this quick.
But what I want to do is the slides.
It’s called success recipe.
I want you to consider this.
I know we came from lunch and stuff, but imagine your very favorite, most favorite dish or restaurant.
Can you visualize it? In fact, I want you to imagine what that dish is.
Just take a moment.
What do you guys like? Can you taste it? Like, if I gave you a description and I said, hey, Ted, what’s your favorite dish? If I said imagine a lemon.
Just picture a lemon that you’re just sucking on a lemon.
You can almost, like, salivate the sourness of it.
Right now, I want you to sense your favorite dish.
What is it? Ted, what’s your favorite dish? Come on.
What’s your favorite dish? Now, I heard someone say eggplant parm and okay, where is your favorite place that you can get an eggplant parm? Okay, now, you said that quick.
Anne, you said that quick.
Why did you say that? Are there other places that make better eggplant parm? No.
She says hands down.
No.
Where are you going with this? I want you to think of that favorite dish.
It might not even be a restaurant Grandma used to make it.
Nobody else can make it like Grandma, whatever that dish is.
And you got to ask yourself why.
See, we say it’s our favorite dish.
Why? Because it tastes good.
Duh.
No, but why explain that? What makes it taste so good, though? See, let’s describe this, and this is going to make sense.
Just pay attention.
Just hold on, guys.
I’m going to come around a full circle.
But if we pay attention to this, was it the cook? Was it the ingredients? Maybe it wasn’t the cook.
The ingredients that Grandma used to use are so fresh.
You can’t get tomatoes like that anywhere.
You can’t get that chicken anywhere else.
It’s just something about that chicken, the bread, something about it is special.
Is it the ingredients? Is it that what made it so special? Was it the experience? Think about that favorite food of yours.
What about this? Was it the love and the passion when they were making it that made it different from this restaurant or this cook or this dish from another dish? Do you know even know how to explain that? Do you even know why it’s your favorite dish? Where is he going with this? Was it the cookware that they used that made it different from everywhere else that you got it? What was so special about it? You see, you sit through this leadership school event, and you’re like, well, they’re kind of saying the same thing.
You got to be persistent.
You got to show up.
You got to never give up.
It’s like the same thing.
Well, let me ask you a question.
If you’re making spaghetti’s and meatball, there’s only certain ingredients that you can’t deviate from.
Would you guys agree with that? Right? Yes or yes.
So if we’re talking about success recipe, there are certain common recipes that you will always find in success.
Would you agree with that? Right.
So the question is what makes someone more successful than someone else? Is it the ingredient of perseverance? Man, my leader told me that’s all I got to do.
I just got to persevere and I got to grit it out.
I got to overcome all the obstacles and I just got to keep showing up.
Does that make that one ingredient make someone successful? What do you think? That’s the end all.
You just got to be persistent and that’s all you got.
You’re like, coach, I’m showing up.
I’m hanging on there.
I’m persistent.
But you ain’t doing nothing besides that.
It’s like an eggplant parm with just eggplant.
What about this? Showing up no matter what? That’s the ingredient, Coach.
That’s it.
You got to show up no matter what.
You can’t ever miss out.
You got to show up to everything.
Coach, I’m in everything.
Yeah, I know.
For like ten years you’ve been showing up to everything, but you just don’t schedule appointments.
Some of you are going to get this later.
Hard work, man.
It’s all about hard work.
Coach, I’m not afraid of hard work.
I’m willing to do the hard work.
Okay, hard work.
But you’ve got to progress.
You’ve got to improve.
You can’t just have one ingredient or two ingredients and expect that’s what’s going to be success.
Y’all with me? All right.
Leadership skills.
Now we’re getting a little bit more complicated with these ingredients.
Leadership skills.
You got to know how to lead people.
You got to know how to be a leader.
And you’ve heard this reference before.
People skills.
No, not that one.
I like the other ingredients.
Not this one.
It’s like saying you’re going to make a spaghetti and meatball dish without the meatballs or without the spaghetti.
People Skills eventually you got to realize we are in a people business.
Teammates, some of us like the finance part about it, and we want to be picky and choosy about the things that we want to get better at.
But success principles, as it states, in order to be successful, there are some non negotiables, like closing skills.
Some of you guys love to volunteer your time.
I’m just letting that sit there for a little bit.
We’re letting it simmer.
Right? You all love helping people, but you’re just volunteering your time.
You love sharing.
Coach, I did a great presentation.
Great.
So that means that you got them involved with income protection? No, they liked everything I saw.
Yeah, I taught them the rule of 72.
So they’re investing in their IRA? No, but they thought the information was valuable.
That’s an important ingredient.
Would you guys not agree? How about this? Competitiveness.
Coach, that’s just not me.
I’m not like that.
I’m not really competitive.
That’s just not my personality.
I heard Harvey refer to that.
That’s just not me.
That is an important ingredient in Primerica.
Even the quiet ones, if you look at successful people, even the ones that are not really outgoing in nature, the introverts, they are all internally, they are freaking competitive.
Like, I’m not the type of person that’s going to come out there and say, I’m taking you down.
But inside, I’m like, I’m taking you down.
It’s important.
So let’s take our ingredients and we’re going to introduce you to some master class chefs.
Okay? So we picked some of your coaches, some of your chefs out there.
So let’s see what Chef Grahalis says about the ingredients in order to succeed, right? So Chef Grahalis says this self accountability.
Self accountability, that is a thing.
When you say something that you’re going to do something, that is an absolute important ingredient that you’ve got to commit and keep your own word.
You know why? Because you are creating your own self image.
Every time you let up and you disappoint, guess what that does to your own self image.
You’ve got to hold yourself accountable to get to the next level and getting results.
How about this? Chef grehales.
Once again, people skills.
You’ve heard that again, I’m not going to tackle that on, but let’s hear from Chef Lipson.
Chef Lipson says you got to have a deep need to succeed.
Now you can’t mince words.
There a deep need to succeed.
Isn’t gee, golly shucks.
Maybe I want to get to RVP.
Gee, maybe so if you know, maybe I’ll get to RVP.
No, there’s a deep down inside need that nobody can give to you.
That’s an important ingredient, says Chef Lipson.
How about this? Chef Lipson integrity does what they say they’re going to do.
Now let’s go to Chef Costello.
Chef Costello says, somebody who wants to be somebody, a never give up attitude.
Is that a missing ingredient for you? Because look, you know what the thing about a successful recipe? You could do 90%, right? And you can miss one ingredient and it just doesn’t taste right.
Right? You could put 90% of the right ingredients, but you miss one ingredient.
It’s like something doesn’t taste right.
True.
Not true.
Right? That’s what success is like.
You can miss one ingredient.
How about this, Chef Costello, you got to be coachable.
You throw these words around and says someone eager to learn from his or her mentor.
Your mentor should not be chasing after you to see if you want to get better.
You have got to chase after your mentor.
You’ve got to be selfish with the time.
Say, coach, I really need your time tomorrow.
Sunday? Monday.
First thing.
Coach, can you squeeze me in? I really need to sit down with you.
And game plan to get to the next level.
Why should you wait for your coach to ask you, how about this? Chef Lee.
That just sounds right? Chef Lee.
Chef Lee says one of the major ingredients that’s necessary for success is having a positive expectation or expectancy.
That means when you do something, you ever invite somebody and they’re like, they’re probably not going to be interested, or you schedule an appointment, they’re like, they’re probably not going to be a client.
You’re already setting yourself up for failure.
They’re probably not going to show up.
They’re probably not interested.
That is a terrible way as an entrepreneur to pursue your business.
All right, let me speed this up.
Chef Lee again, plays no matter what, easily adapts and adjusts to get it done.
Chef Narain.
Unbelievable work ethic.
Would you believe Chef Nareen? Yeah, you could trust them because they have an unbelievable work ethic.
Nobody disputes that.
No.
Everything else, all the other ingredients, it was good.
I don’t like that ingredient right there.
Maybe that’s the one ingredient that’s going to make your dish to be perfect.
How about this? Treat people fairly.
Chef Kim.
What about this? Takes initiative.
That’s a powerful word, initiative without actually being told or asked.
You do it first.
How about this? Consistent in progress.
You know what’s crazy is the average promotional guideline says six direct districts, right? You realize that in order to get six direct districts, you just got to get a district every other month.
I mean, I know you want to get ten districts this month.
Okay, that’s great.
But if you just set a twelve year game plan twelve month I’m sorry, game plan? And you wanted to get a district every other month, you’d be an RVP.
But there has to be consistent progress.
All right, I’m almost done.
Let me just speed it up.
All right? Many of you guys think that you can pop in and pop out like a microwave RVPs.
Look, you all would agree that microwave dishes don’t taste the same as if you actually cook it, right? Everybody, in agreements with that, you can’t get a gourmet dish, pop it in the microwave in 30 seconds.
It takes time.
In my opinion, look, people can do it faster, but in my opinion, 24 to 48 months, I think is a good amount of time to cook.
The last thing I want to say is this.
Some of you guys are over.
Are cooked.
Get out of the oven.
Hurry up.
Get to RVP.
You are done.
Get out of there.
Go get your RVP contract.
Proud to be in business with you guys.
Let’s use these success principles and recipes.
Thank you, guys.
