Ever feel like you’re stuck in a rut, questioning if you truly believe in your potential with Primerica? You’re not alone. Many reps struggle with self-doubt and the fear of failure, thinking that success is just out of reach. But what if you could change that mindset and embrace the power of belief to transform your business? Michael Chaffin dives deep into this topic, sharing his personal journey of overcoming doubt and embracing the challenges that come with building a successful Primerica career. His story is raw, inspiring, and packed with insights that can help you reignite your passion and commitment. If you’re ready to break free from the chains of uncertainty and step into a future filled with possibility, this is the video you can’t afford to miss. Watch it now and discover the breakthrough tips that can propel you to new heights.
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Need you to talk about belief.
Anybody in here want to be leaving? Okay? Because if you don’t start believing, you’ll be leaving, okay? And and I just believe with everything in me that there’s no such thing as 98% belief, right? You got to believe in this thing.
Dan’s going to talk about my favorite topic tomorrow, burning the ships, right? If you don’t believe you’re going to be winning here, you know you got another thing coming.
And, you know, everybody talks to us, and they’re like, man, you guys are at 300,000 already, SVP.
And I don’t know about you, Layton, it feels like it took way too long, right? And they think it’s easy, right? They’re like, man, that was just easy.
It must have been all sunshine and roses, right? Anybody that was up on this stage a little bit ago knows that it’s hard.
It takes a lot of pain, right? A lot of trials and tribulations, and, you know, for me, I was a fitness director.
I was a regional vice president.
A great company, actually, based out of Tampa Bay.
Some of you might have remembered lifestyle Family Fitness before a really evil company bought it out.
So I grew up with those guys.
I love what I was doing.
I ended up at Lifetime Fitness.
Here I am, just a couple of kids from Maine.
Lisa was a school teacher.
I’m making six figures, picking stuff up and putting it down.
I mean, come on.
How hard is that, right? Running health clubs until I wasn’t, right? A job is only as good as yesterday.
It’s only as reliable as the boss you got today.
And what I didn’t know at 38 years old, is a job was never designed to deliver for my family.
So if you want to think of some reasons to believing, tonight is this was created for your family.
The job is not.
There’s no such thing as a good job, and we got to go save people from that.
And I found that out on August 13 of 2016.
I walked into Dave’s club.
Dave and Marianne worked for me in the fitness industry, right? And I walked into his club, and I was greeted by my boss.
I was walked into an office, and I was walked out the door.
I’d never been written up.
I’d never been in trouble.
But, man, you know what? God uses bad people to deliver good things.
And a year before I was technically recruited in 2015, across the kitchen table as a really good silent partner.
You know, the type that never answers the text message, never answers the phone sets, zero appointments, acts like you don’t exist.
But were happy clients, right? We became life insurance clients.
To replace a term that was sold too short, scott rolled over our 401K.
We’re very happy clients.
So the very next day, after I get fired, I called Scott to do a rollover for the rest of my money and figure out how to get a hold of that money if I need it.
And he said some powerful words, and this is a guy that was not a recruiter at the time, either.
He said, Mike, that’s easy, but what are you doing today? And I had some choice words, and he invited me to a builder school just like this.
That Friday night, I walked in, I listened to Jimmy Meyer.
I met Gus Gonzalez.
I met Alex Sinabria.
I met Bobby Boisson.
Just like you should be doing.
You asked my teammates here today, jay and Tara and Verne, and we’re introducing them to everybody.
You got to introduce them to heroes and friends.
And that night sold it to me.
I did what every winner did, and I skipped Saturday.
Don’t be me.
I don’t know what I did on Saturday, either.
I was probably painting some walls or something because I was newly unemployed.
But on Monday morning at PFN TV, we live in Atlanta, ian PARKner got his 77th million dollar jersey, and I just sat there like, what the heck is going on? Why are all those people so happy for the Ortiz, right? If you’re new here, raise your hand.
If you’re new, like, in the last six months, isn’t it a little weird? It doesn’t seem weird to us anymore, because this is what we do, right? And that was our moment.
But, man, if I want to tell you guys something, everybody that thinks it was easy for us, the amount of doubt I had those nine months, man, I thought all my employees, I thought all my friends in the fitness industry would love to follow, answer the phone.
But you know what happens when you call them, right? Man, I ask myself, Is it me? Is it one of those things? Do I want to be one of those people for nine months? Meanwhile, I’m doing the thing a little bit here and building the business.
But, man, I wanted to quit this thing.
I had self doubt.
We didn’t know what to do, really.
When you have somebody with a good corporate career, they need a corporate detox.
You got to power wash that crap and get them through it fast.
It took me nine months, and at the end of that nine months, we had drained an $80,000 IRA because I went full time.
Anybody know how to spell full time? It doesn’t have two o’s in it.
Just so you know.
Right? You guys ever find your people quit the jobs, and all of a sudden they got time to be doing all the stuff they shouldn’t be doing, and they’re not doing all the stuff that got them? Yeah, exactly.
I went full time right out the gate and didn’t act like it, and it drained our bank account, and I was doubting it, right? So remember believing.
But every day, I was connected to something Primerica in the gym.
I was listening to YouTube.
I was listening to SoundCloud, making sure I was in every single meeting.
But at the end of that nine months, man, I was broken.
And you know what the devil does right before opportunity, right? So they come out, and Lifetime called me back and offered me the job of the guy that fired me, man.
And they were coming town to go to her club, and she said, Mike, will you come meet with us? I said, of course.
Call me.
And they didn’t.
They came town, and God slammed the door, and they didn’t call me.
And the next thing I knew, I was like, well, Scott, I think I really need to get a job.
He calls his dad Randy.
They jump on a zoom call because we knew what zoom was back then.
He says, man, you got to get your dumb butt to convention indianapolis.
I’m like, I don’t have any money, right? I just spent all my money.
But, man, I got my butt to Indianapolis.
And I’m just telling you right here, you can’t even go to the bathroom, right? Lisa, you leave, and he’s pointing, and he thinks, tara is my wife now.
Y’all you never know.
I remember Alex and neighbor $2 million earner.
He says, you might miss your second, right? You’re here to get your blessing this weekend, right? We drove down from Atlanta to bring three teammates here to get them exposed to real Primerica.
This is real Primerica, right? To get the love.
So you can believe, right? Listen, if that parade there didn’t prove to you that anybody can do it here, yes, you can, right? And that actually made me completely lose my train of thought, thinking about how amazing that train was there, right? But, man, I went up there, and I was sitting in the back.
Anybody raise your hand if you were at Indianapolis? Personally, I think they should take us back there.
What do you think, John? That was a good place.
But, man, I was sitting in the back, and by the way, I was super distracted, because another thing you do when you’re trying to build it big is you bodybuild, and you focus on going to the gym.
And I look at all my pictures now, and I understand why weren’t winning.
We were doing everything but setting and running appointments.
But, man, I got up there, and in between workouts and sessions, a guy by the name of Joe Ward comes up on the stage in a funny blue suit and a cubs hat, right? Go, Red Sox.
And he talked about dating Primerica, dating his destiny.
And he talked about the trials and tribulations he had.
He talked about losing cars and babies and being put on a division leader contract as a vice president.
And he said and I mean, this broke me.
He said, I wanted to break up with Primerica a thousand times.
Anybody feel that way ever? Okay? Until you make your decisions to burn the ships.
It was that night that I looked at David, Mary, and Dean, and I said, this is it.
Lifetime’s getting no.
My mentors were getting no.
All the jobs that were calling were getting no.
And were planting our flag.
Now, we did a whopping zero by zero that June.
So here’s another believing moment for you.
You could be at zero by zero.
And we did 32 by 21 the next month.
We did 28 by 20 the following month.
And then we’re off to the races, right? You got to get out of your feelings.
There ain’t no money in there.
You got to stop worrying about what people think.
What do you think I learned at convention? Did they teach us anything at convention? No, I said the same stuff.
I just said it a different way.
And then people listened and it multiplied, right? One led to two, led to six, led to 1632.
We exploded.
And then remember, it’s a ride.
Like, you got to embrace the suck.
You got to embrace the hard.
This is supposed to be hard.
Anything that brings growth has to go through pain.
Working out, learning, growing.
It has to be uncomfortable, right? There’s a short read out there.
If you’ve never read it, go for no.
You should read that.
A book that’s changed my business this year is Fanatical Prospecting.
Everybody’s like, Man, I don’t want to prospect.
Read the book.
But, man, you take that you plug into an event, you block out the negativity.
You just accept it, man.
Mike, they said it was a scam.
Thank God.
One down, five to go.
Keep going.
Right? This is supposed to happen.
I was telling Jay and Terry, people just think, as soon as somebody says no, see, it doesn’t work.
People say no thousands of times a day, right? It’s just business, right? We are a business just like everyone else, right? So, man, once you get there it took us nine months to go to vice president.
We went out strong.
We were 30 by 30 base, and we left two strong division legs.
Unfortunately, one quit.
They were number one in the nation for this thing called Engage for 90 used to have.
So even good people quit.
And then our amazing replacement exchange, the deans that went RVP.
And then the wheels fell off.
Layton, you know anything about the wheels falling off, brother? One of the toughest dudes there is right there, man, I’m so proud of that kid.
Watching him.
I’ve been here watching that grow up and watching Eduard just slay it here.
That’s what helps you believe.
You got to watch it happen and then know it when it’s your turn.
You should be happy you’re going through that.
You see, we got put on a division leader contract as a regional vice president.
We ran a nine by nine base shop for two years.
But as an RVP, you got to know how to make money.
We made $150,000 because that’s a contract and a license to print money.
Run a balanced business, focus on recruiting.
Wait till you find your people.
Next thing you know, you find your people, right? And then, man, God just blessed us in lots of ways, like they did all sorts of people through COVID.
Our business exploded.
We found our first regional vice presidents from our home state of Maine on Zoom.
They’ve been watching us for three years with zero likes and zero comments, but they’re watching.
This is an attraction business.
Now, there’s a lot of attractive people here as far as our swagger and our style, right? This is one of the coolest groups of people.
But what’s your social media look like, right? Don’t even speak negativity.
You got to show all positivity like Lisa does.
She is quite possibly the best lover of humans on planet Earth.
I was telling Jay and Tara a little bit ago, probably the most unbelievable thing that’s happened to me in this business is how Lisa and I went from living two different lives to one life together, right? One common cause where you have happy days, you fight days, right? You fight about the business a lot when you’re both passionate about it, but watching the woman that she’s become and the relationship that we form to show our children.
Our son just turned 18 on the 30th, so he got an IBA on the 30th.
We picked him up from front row at Taylor Swift at the MercedesBenz, our dome, right? Our home.
Right? Not a falcons.
I mean Primerica, right? And we picked him up in the car.
We’re like, Dude, you got to sign that on your birthday and go get licensed.
Right? Because this is a family legacy like the Ortiz’s, man, and it will change your life.
And you just got to make a decision today that the alternative is never better than the opportunity.
You got to choose your fear.
Is it the rejection? Is it the doubt? Is it the hate? Because it’s all there.
I still have fear every day.
She’s way stronger than I am at talking to people.
But what’s the other fear? What happens if you don’t do it? You got to replace your petty fears with much bigger fears of what kind of legacy you’ll leave your family if you don’t choose to fight for your destiny here with this amazing company, y’all.
This is just the most amazing business company.
We’re so blessed to be here.
And another thing my good friend Jacob Webb said, hey, Mike, don’t forget you don’t have freedom yet.
There’s a few people in this room that are free.
Very few.
Their business comes whether they show up to work or not.
The rest of us have something called flexibility.
We can live life a little bit, and I’m enjoying some flexibility but don’t.
Hey, this is me talking to my friends in the business.
Let’s not mistake the middle for the end.
Let’s finish what we started and dominate this thing.
We love the opportunity.
Love you guys.
Thank you so much.
